Lag luam lub koob npe nrov thiab cov duab yog thawj cov lus qhia uas koj cov neeg koom nrog, cov qhua thiab cov chaw ua hauj lwm. Tias yog vim li cas nws thiaj li tseem ceeb kom paub cov khoom ntawm tus lag luam duab, nrog rau kev nkag siab txog cov kev cai yooj yim thiab cov hau kev ntawm kev tsim lub koob npe thiab cov duab ntawm ib tug kws muaj tseeb.
Nyob rau hauv tsab xov xwm no peb yuav tham txog cov duab ntawm ib tug poj niam niaj hnub ua lag luam .
Ethics thiab cov duab ntawm ib tug neeg ua lag luam
Lub tswvyim ntawm kev lagluam duab tsis ntev los no - lub sijhawm no tshwm sim nyob rau ob feem pua ntawm lub xyoo pua nees nkaum. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, thawj qhov kev tshawb fawb ntawm tus qauv ntawm cov duab thiab cov style ntawm tus lag luam ntawm kev ua tiav ntawm nws txoj kev lag luam pib. Qhov tseeb, qhov tseem ceeb ntawm cov duab sab nrauv rau cov lag luam, cov neeg tswjfwm thiab cov pejxeem suav tau paub ntau dhau lawm - twb nyob hauv Nrab Hnub Tsav Nicollo Machiavelli tau txais kev ncajncees hauv nws tes haujlwm qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev tsim duab ("face masks", "faces"). Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom to taub tias txoj hauj lwm ntawm daim duab yog los tsim ib lub tswv yim zoo thiab hais txog koj tus kheej zoo, thiab tsis txhob zais qhov tsis muaj kev txawj ntse, txhais tias tsis muaj los yog tsis ncaj ncees cov ntsiab lus, vim hais tias sai los yog tom qab qhov tseeb qhib txhua lub sij hawm, thiab tsis muaj duab yuav cawm tau los ntawm kev xav phem ntawm ib tug neeg siab phem thiab tus neeg ntaus thawj.
Yog tias koj xav tau kev pab cuam los ntawm cov neeg ua lag luam lossis cov neeg siv, koj yuav tsum tsis muaj kev txawj ntse xwb, tiam sis kuj muaj peev xwm "xa koj tus kheej", coj kev coj ua hauv zej tsoom, hauv cov txheej xwm, noj mov, kev ua koob tsheej.
Yuav ua li cas los tsim cov duab ntawm ib tus neeg ua lag luam?
Tus poj niam lag luam duab muaj ob peb yam khoom:
- sab nraud dua. Cov khaub ncaws zoo, cov plaub hau, pleev, qhov muag zoo - txhua qhov no yuav pab tsim cov duab zoo nkauj;
- kev txawj ntse. Kev paub txog theoretical thiab cov tswv yim hauv kev ua haujlwm ntawm kev ua haujlwm kuj yog ib feem tseem ceeb ntawm daim duab. Nws yog tsis yooj yim sua kom tswj tau cov duab ntawm ib tug poj niam lag luam rau ib lub sij hawm ntev, siv xwb tsos thiab ntxim nyiam;
- puab ntsuj plig. Kev ua siab zoo, kev sib haum xeeb, kev mloog zoo rau lwm tus, kev ua siab ntev - kev coj ua zoo li no "ncuav rau hauv" qhov chaw tsim nyog, tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo thiab paub zoo;
- kev hais lus thiab kev coj. Cov kws tshaj lij yuav tsum muaj peev xwm sib txuas lus nrog tib neeg, paub cov cai ntawm cov lus qhia thiab ua raws li lawv. Cov neeg ua haujlwm hauv chav kawm muaj peev xwm them taus me ntsis, tab sis lawv qhov kev ua ub no yuav muaj kev vam meej ntxiv yog tias lawv raug coj los ntawm cov kev coj ua dav dav;
- entourage. Qhov tseem ceeb ntawm accessories, cov ntsiab lus me me thiab txawm tias sab hauv ntawm lub chaw ua haujlwm lossis lub txee tsis tseem ceeb rau qhov tseem ceeb ntawm lwm yam ntawm daim duab. Tom qab tag nrho, raws li tus yam ntxwv ntawm lub tuam txhab chaw ua hauj lwm, nws cov neeg thiab cov neeg koom tes kos cov lus txiav txim siab txog nws txoj kev vam meej, kev ua tiav thiab kev cia siab;
- biography. Nws puas zoo li koj hloov tau hauv koj tus kheej keeb kwm lub neej? Koj tsis tuaj yeem nqa rov qab yav dhau los, tab sis tsis txhob xaiv cov niam txiv thiab cov txheeb ze. Tam sim no, tus neeg lag luam muaj cai xaiv qhov kev nkaum los ntawm nws lub neej yav dhau los thiab dab tsi pub rau pej xeem rau kev sib tw.
Los tsim ib lub lag luam duab, tus ntxhais yuav tsum xub ua txhua yam nco qab tias yuav tsum tau ua kom haum rau sab nraud, sab hauv thiab kev tivthaiv. Tsis tas txhua lub sijhawm hnav dub, xiav lossis grey trouser nplua - ob peb lub teeb nrig hauv cov khaub ncaws yuav tsis tiv thaiv. Yog tias koj tsis dhau ntawm koj tus kheej lub zog los tsim ib qho duab sab nrauv - hu rau ib tus kws pab tswv yim los yog duab tsim tawm tswv yim. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas koj yuav tsum them siab rau thaum xaiv khaub ncaws yog txoj cai hnav khaub ncaws ntawm koj lub tuam txhab thiab koj tus kheej hom tsos. Xaiv 5-7 cov xim xim, thiab 4-5 ntxiv xim xim. Tov lawv ua ke thiab tsim ntau yam kev sib txuas, koj yuav muaj peev xwm ib txwm saib tshiab thiab txhim kho, tib lub sij hawm, tsis tas mus tshaj li ntawm cov kev lag luam ntawm kev lag luam.
Piv txwv ntawm cov khaub ncaws uas pab tsim daim duab zoo nkauj, koj tuaj yeem pom hauv peb qhov chaw.
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