Koj, tej zaum, feem ntau tau ntsib ib tug neeg uas nws xav tau, vim li cas, koj tsis to taub. Tau, koj tus kheej feem ntau zoo li ib tug "neeg txawv teb chaws" nyob rau hauv lub qhov muag ntawm lwm tus neeg. Peb txhua tus tau xav, tab sis ntau hom kev xav yog sib txawv ntawm cov qib uas tau tsim hauv lub hlwb ntawm peb txhua tus. Yog li ntawd, nws hloov tawm tias txhua tus neeg muaj ib qho kev sib txawv ntawm kev puas siab puas ntsws. Qhov teeb meem tsuas yog kev to taub, uas tsuas yog tsis yooj yim sua nrog koj txoj kev xav antipode. Hauv psychology, nws ntseeg tau hais tias txhua yam kev xav yuav raug kho thiab tsis txhob muaj teeb meem.
Hom kev xav rau peb txhua tus
Cia peb saib cov neeg tawm tswv yim los ntawm cov hom kev xav , thiab txawm tias feem ntau cov neeg muaj cov khoom ntawm hom sib xyaw, ib qho yuav nrhiav tau cov khoom ntawm nws cov tseem ceeb.
Qhov sib txawv ntawm cov cwj pwm ntawm ob hom no, piv txwv li, "idealistic" thiab "irrational."
Zoo li hom
Ib tug neeg uas muaj lub tswv yim zoo xav ua neej nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb ntawm kev xav thiab kev xav. Cov neeg zoo li no tau ua raws li luag lwm tus pom, vim li ntawd, lawv pheej raug kev nyuaj siab, lossis "nrhiav" lawv cov tswv yim. Lawv tsim cov duab thiab, nrhiav ib tus neeg sib tw uas tsim nyog, ntseeg tias nws zoo tag nrho. Cov neeg xav tau yooj yim tshaj plaws, nkag siab cov duab ntawm nws qhov zoo tagnrho. Tab sis nyob rau hauv tsis muaj cov ntaub ntawv yuav tsis tau contradicted, txij thaum lub sib tham nrog lub idealist yog txo mus rau ib tug tas mus li "poddakivaniyu."
Analytical hom
Ntaus ntawm hom kev xav nyob rau hauv qhov kev ntsuam xyuas qhov kev xav, kev kwv yees, thiab kev xav ntawm lub tsheb ciav hlau uas tau ntev ntev lawm. Tus kws tshuaj ntsuam, muaj kev daws qhov teeb meem, yuav xav ntev txog lwm txoj kev daws teeb meem, hais txog dab tsi motives tsiv nws, nws cov neeg sib tw, nws muaj kev tsim zoo heev kev soj xyuas. Hauv kev sib tham nrog tus analyst, koj yuav tsum qhia nws tag nrho cov saw ntawm cov xwm txheej nkaus. Ib qho kev rho tawm yuav ua rau nws chim siab.
Hom txawv
Irratsionaly yog cov npau suav loj. Tom qab tham nrog ib tug txiv neej ntawm no hom, koj yuav qhuas nws Napoleonic cov kev npaj, nws kev ua ub no, thiab ces nws hloov tawm tias qhov no tsuas yog ib zaj dab neeg ntawm nws tsis tswm sim. Thaum tham nrog lub irrational, ib tug yuav tsum tas li tswj nws, txo nws los ntawm saum ntuj ceeb tsheej.
Rational hom
Rational - xav tias soberly, kom meej meej thiab xwm yeem realizes npau suav thiab cov kev npaj. Yuav kom txaus siab rau nws, kom ntxias nws mus ua, ib tug yuav tsum pib nrog tus kheej kev xam pom thiab kev pab rau nws. Cov neeg ntawm lub hom phiaj uas ua tau zoo nyob zoo, zoo li thuam lwm tus thiab yooj yim nrog cov khoom tsis muaj nqis thiab cov neeg.
Synthesizing hom
Cov neeg ua haujlwm yog cov kws tshawb fawb, cov neeg ua hauj lwm hauv tsev kawm ntawv, cov neeg ua hauj lwm muaj plua plav thiab tawg. Lawv koom nrog sib txuas cov ntaub ntawv nyuaj-rau-tau txais kev nkag mus rau ib qho nkaus xwb. Rau lawv, lub neej niaj hnub ua tsis tau zoo, cov neeg tsim khoom siv yuav tsum tau lossi ib qho tshiab rau cov lus qhia.