Yuav luag txhua zaus, tag nrho cov "tsis xis nyob" ntawm tus me nyuam yog ib qho kev xav ntawm niam txiv. Peb nquag tsim tau ib qho av zoo heev rau kev loj hlob ntawm tus kheej ntawm tus menyuam. Nyob rau ntawm txhua lub sijhawm, peb qhia ntau txog peb tus kheej, muaj peev xwm lossis muaj peev xwm ntawm peb tus menyuam, thiab yog li ua rau nws paub tseeb tias nws yog tus menyuam tshwj xeeb tshaj plaws nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb. Los ntawm lub sij hawm ntawm lub crumb pib coj raws nraim li no: yuav tsum muaj kev tshwj xeeb kev sib raug zoo thiab feem ntau tsis pom lwm tus nyob ib ncig ntawm nws.
Egoism zoo kawg nkaus ripens thiab nyob rau hauv av ntawm tas mus li indulgence mus rau whims thiab whims. Cov niam txiv xav muab tus me nyuam txhua yam uas lawv tus kheej tsis muaj thaum yau. Lawv nug cov khoom ua si kim thiab ntawm txhua qhov "xav tau" lawv maj mam mus tom khw, thaum xub thawj lawv muab tag nrho lawv cov hauj lwm thiab muab txhua yam rau tus me nyuam txhua lub sijhawm. Nws tsuas yog ib qho uas nws tau siv rau tus cwj pwm no sai thiab yav tom ntej tsis tuaj yeem to taub tias vim li cas tus cwj pwm hloov lawm.
Feem ntau muaj ntau zaus thaum cov niam txiv ua tiag tiag xav kom lawv cov me nyuam kawm, ua si thiab ua kom loj hlob. Tab sis qhov teeb meem yog tias lawv xav kom nws rau lawv cov me nyuam. Yog li ntawd, niam txiv daws teeb meem rau lawv hauv tsev kawm ntawv, ntxuav lawv hauv chav tsev los yog xiab tus menyuam nrog tej koob hmoov, kom nws ua nws tus kheej. Ob txoj kev coj mus rau qhov tseeb tias qhov teeb meem no tsuas yog hnyav dua.
Lwm yam kev hloov ntawm kev tshwm sim yog qhov kev paub ntawm tus me nyuam mos liab. Cov menyuam yaus ua tib zoo saib xyuas thiab nws yeej tseem tsis tau tshwm sim rau lawv tias lawv yuav tsum qhia zoo sib xws ntawm lawv tus txheeb ze. Nyob rau hauv xws li cov me nyuam, txawm muaj xwm txheej twg qhov tsim nyog yuav daws tau ib yam dab tsi, tsis tshwm sim. Qhov tshwm sim yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws: tus menyuam tsis yog siv nws lub luag haujlwm rau nws tus kheej, tab sis kuj tsis tuaj yeem ua neej nyob tsis muaj kev txhawj xeeb.
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Yog li, qhov xwm txheej yuav txawv heev, tab sis lawv txhua tus rov qab mus rau thaum yau. Yog li cias cov kab tawg rau cov tshuaj tsw qab los yog ntau qhov xav tau tsis tsim nyog nws. Koj yuav tsum tau cem cov niam txiv, tab sis nrog ib tug me nyuam thiab ntau dua li cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum tau ua haujlwm. Ntawm dab tsi, raws li kev xyaum qhia, nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau siv ib nrab sij hawm, dua li siv rau kev tsim ntawm egoism.
- Maj mam, tab sis ntseeg tau tawm ntawm tag nrho cov khoom thiab kev lav phib xaub uas koj tus me nyuam ua tau nws tus kheej. Piv txwv li, cov me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog plaub xyoos yeej muaj peev xwm ntxuav hauv lawv chav thiab muab tso rau ntawm feem ntau ntawm cov khaub ncaws. Yog li, koj yuav maj mam tshem tag nrho cov uas tsis pub cov me nyuam loj hlob tuaj.
- Maj mam qhia cov haujlwm tshiab hauv tsev rau tus menyuam. Yog tias koj pib hais meej txog kev ywj pheej ntawm koj tus menyuam thiab kho nws raws li, nws yuav maj mam pib ua li no. Cia siab rau ob peb yam yooj yim thiab thov kom lawv coj lawv mus rau qhov kawg. Ua tus nqi zog, qhuas tus me nyuam thiab, yog ua tau, ua nrog tsev neeg.
- Muab koj tus menyuam khiav mus rau sab nraud ntawm kev qia dub rau ib zaug. Muaj ntau leej niam hais tias tsis muaj kev saib xyuas tus me nyuam tsuas tuaj yeem mus kawm tsis tau. Qhov tseeb, nws to taub zoo heev tias koj tuaj yeem tsis tsaug zog, tsis txhob sau phau ntawv. Tab sis tom qab tag nrho nws yuav ua tau thiab tsis hais lus. Sim siv tsawg kawg ib zaug, thiab tsis txhob ua rau koj tus menyuam ua nws haujlwm. Cia nws mus ntsib teeb meem thiab teeb meem.
- Tom qab hnub kawm ntawv lossis qib kindergarten, nco ntsoov tsis txhob xav txog qhov koj tus menyuam tau siv hnub ntawd. Nug nws txog cov xwm txheej ntawm cov phooj ywg. Yog hais tias nws yeej zoo siab los yog kev txhawj xeeb rau lawv, ces yuav tsis muaj teeb meem thiab tus me nyuam yuav loj hlob ntawm kev qia dub.