Txij thaum ancient sij hawm, neeg feem coob ntseeg hais tias butterflies yog cov ntsujplig ntawm cov neeg tuag, thiab yog li ntawd lawv yuav tsis raug tua nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub: nws ua teeb meem loj heev. Tab sis peb nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb tag nrho ntawm lub teeb, thiab cov yeeb yuj butterflies yog cov nquag qhua hauv lub vaj thiab lub vaj. Muaj tseeb, qee zaum lawv ya mus rau hauv peb tsev, thiab tsis muaj dab tsi txhawj txog txog thaum twg ib tug neeg tsis muaj lub siab qhua zaum ntawm ib tug txiv neej lub caj npab los yog taub hau. Thiab yog hais tias ib tug npauj npaim dub ya mus rau hauv chav tsev - qhov no qhia li cas txog nws?
Cov cim qhia txog dub butterflies
Nyob rau hauv kev txhais ntawm lawv cov tsos nyob rau hauv lub tsev muaj ib co discrepancies.
- Raws li qee qhov, cov tsos ntawm tus npauj npaim dub tsis yog xam txhua yam kev ceeb toom ntawm cov teeb meem yav tom ntej.
- Lwm tus neeg ntseeg hais tias npauj npaim ntawm tsos nqaij daim tawv yog ib tug tua neeg ntawm kev piam sij thiab loj teeb meem.
- Yog tias npauj npaim tsaus nti los ntawm lub qhov rais, daim ntawv ceeb toom ceeb toom tias cov xov xwm tsis zoo yuav tuaj yeem "ya hauv" sai sai, yog li koj yuav tsum tau xyuam xim thiab attentive.
- "Tus nqi ntawm negativity", thiaj li mus hais lus, uas ib tug npauj npaim tau coj mus rau lub neej, yog hais los ncaj qha nyob ntawm seb qhov loj ntawm kab. Yog li ntawd, nws tseem me me, qhov yooj yim dua nws yuav tsum kov yeej tej teeb meem.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nkag siab tias lub npauj npaim tsaus nti uas tau khiav mus rau hauv chav tsev, qhov kos npe no muaj xws li kev txhais lus:
- Yog tias nws ya mus, zaum ntawm ib qho khoom thiab ntsiag to tso, ces cov xov xwm tsis txaus siab uas koj yuav paub yuav kis tau yog tias koj tsis ua tej yam tsis txaus siab.
- Thaum cov kab tua kab nyob ncig ntawm lub tsev thiab ntaus tawm lub qhov rai, teeb meem yuav muaj feem xyuam rau txoj hauv koj lub neej thiab ua rau kev tawm tsam, kev tsoo thiab ua rau poob zoo.
- Ib tug npauj npaim dub, poob siab tshaj lub taub hau ntawm ib tug neeg, cog lus nws teeb meem loj hauv lub neej. Tsis tas li ntawd, nws tsis yog los ntawm kev xav tias nws yuav kwv yees txoj kev tuag, tab sis koj yuav tsum npaj kom muaj kev ntxhov siab.