Nrog rau tus me nyuam mos liab hauv tsev, muaj ntau tus niam txiv los ua cov kws tshaj lij hauv cov cheeb tsam uas tau pom tsis meej. Qhov tseeb, kev txawj ua kom sov li hauv cov hmoov me me los yog swaddling me nyuam yuav tsis tas yuav nyob ze yav tom ntej. Txawm li cas los xij, muaj ntau yam uas koj yuav tsum to taub, tsawg kawg yog txog thaum tus me nyuam kawm tiav qib nrab. Ib qho ntawm cov ncauj lus no yog khoom ua si.
Koj yuav xaiv qhov kev ua si rau koj tus menyuam li cas? Nws puas yog nws tus kheej qhia txog qhov uas tsim nyog rau nws los yog koj puas muaj cai cia nws yuav nws tus kheej yog dab tsi uas tsim nyog rau nws? Koj puas paub qhov teebmeem rau kev xav thiab kev noj qab haus huv ntawm cov menyuam yaus puas zais tau los ntawm cov khoom ua si niaj hnub? Raws li lawv hais, leej twg forewarned yog armed. Ua raws li qhov kev ceeb toom kom muab tus me nyuam nrog kev sib haum xeeb.
"Muaj cai" cov khoom ua si
Raws li koj paub, ua si rau ib lub sijhawm ntev yog qhov haujlwm tseem ceeb ntawm tus menyuam. Thiab cov haujlwm tseem ceeb ntawm cov niam txiv yog xaiv cov khoom ua si uas tsim nyog rau nws lub hnub nyoog thiab txhawb nws txoj kev loj hlob. Hauv lo lus nug no, ib tug yuav tsum tig mus rau hnub nyoog psychology:
- txij li 10 hnub ntawm hnub nyoog tus me nyuam pib txhim kho cov khoom txav ntawm nws, thiab lub hlis nws tau mloog cov suab thiab ntsia txhua yam uas ua rau nws txav ua ntej nws. Thawj cov khoom ua si ntawm lub hnub nyoog no muaj ntau yam khoom thiab cov khoom siv suab paj nruag, uas yuav tsum tau tsau rau ntawm 50 cm ntawm qhov muag;
- Thaum 4 lub hlis tus me nyuam pib tuav ntawm tes txhua yam uas nws nyiam. Nyob rau lub sij hawm no, zoo meej rattles nrog lub sijhawm ntev, uas tus me nyuam yuav tuav, thiab hloov cov khoom ua si ntawm ib sab mus rau lwm tus;
- txij li ntawm 6 lub hlis ntawm tus me nyuam nyiam tsuas yog cov xim rau cov khoom ua si xwb, tab sis kuj yog lawv "saj". Txhua yam khoom txaus siab rau tus me nyuam tam sim ntawd los rau nws lub qhov ncauj. Yog li ntawd nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau siv cov rattles los ntawm cov khoom noj khoom haus yas, nrog ib tus ntug;
- los ntawm 8 lub hlis tus me nyuam pib nquag tawm suab tawm ntawm cov khoom thiab ua raws li cov cai ntawm physics - knocking, qhib, rub, rolling, poob. Rau cov hom phiaj no, tus me nyuam zoo rau ntau lub thawv, ua menyuam roj hmab, rau lwm tus, thiab lwm yam;
- Hauv 1 xyoos tus me nyuam pib ua yeeb yam nrog cov khoom. Piv txwv, kom rub ib rab diav mus rau hauv koj lub qhov ncauj, tsav ib lub tshuab ntaus ntawv, ntim ib pob, qhia rau lwm qhov ntawm lub ntsej muag thiab paub tias lawv hu li cas. Nyob rau cov hnub nyoog hauv cov phau ntawv nrog cov duab ci, cov khoom thiab tsuav yog qhov zoo;
- nyob rau hauv 2 xyoos nrog tus me nyuam nws yog qhov tseem ceeb rau cov ntsiab lus thiab cov xim, cov ntaub ntawv thiab cov khoom ntawm cov khoom. Rau qhov no, ntsuas, cov khoom nyob rau hauv ib lub voj voos ntau xim thiab ntau yam ntsiab lus ntawm tus ntoo constructor rau cov menyuam yaus yuav ua;
- nyob rau hauv 2,5 xyoo tus me nyuam muaj kev ywj siab xaiv tau xaiv 4 yam xim. Zoo meej haum rau lub hnub nyoog ntawm cov khoom noj rau me nyuam roj hmab. Kuj ntawm lub hnub nyoog no nws yog ib qhov ua tau los yuav ib qho khoom ua si qis kom tus me nyuam thiaj kawm tau rau khau thiab khawm khawm;
- nyob hauv 3 xyoos cov menyuam yaus nyiam ua cov luag haujlwm ua si. Nws tuaj yeem yog ib tug tub rog, kws kho mob, tus kws tu plaub hau, thiab lwm yam. Rau kev ua si xws li, cov menyuam yaus tshwj xeeb raug muag;
- ze li ntawm rau cov me nyuam yaus xav ua menyuam roj hmab, tsheb thauj mus los, ntau cov dev, rog, hlawv thiab lwm yam tsiaj uas siv tau rau hauv kev ua si. Tsis tas li ntawd, tsis txhob hnov qab txog kev noj qab haus huv thiab kev them nqi rau cov khoom, hoops, pob tw taw, thiab lwm yam. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj hauv koj txoj kev xaiv yuav tsum tsis yog daim duab thiab ntau xim, tab sis cov khoom ua si ntawm tus me nyuam lub hnub nyoog thiab nws txoj kev nyab xeeb rau tus me nyuam kev xav.
Los ntawm txoj kev, hais txog lub psyche
Koj puas tau xav txog qhov xim ntsuab xiav (uas tsis muaj nyob hauv cov xwm txheej), los yog dais liab (xws li xim zoo ib yam li ntawd, tsis tuaj yeem) tig mus rau lub ntiaj teb rau tus me nyuam? Thiab qhov no tsis yog hais txog ntau yam khoom los ntawm Tuam Tshoj, uas cov neeg laus txawm coj mus rau lub plawv nres. Yog li ntawd, cia peb xav txog yam teeb meem uas tau muab zais rau hauv cov khoom ua si, yog li tsis poob rau lub cuab yeej ntawm cov khoom siv khoom noj khoom haus.
Nyob rau hauv lub xyoo pua 20, psychologists tau hu ob pab pawg ntawm cov khoom ua si.
1. Cov khoom ua si zoo uas muaj cov nram no:
- sib haum rau cov hnub nyoog thiab kev loj hlob ntawm tus me nyuam;
- yog cov neeg pabcuam zoo hauv kev paub ntawm lub ntiajteb ib puag ncig;
- yog cov qauv ntawm ib qho khoom tiag lossis khoom uas muaj nyob hauv cov xwm txheej;
- nyob rau hauv qhov zoo tshaj plaws cov ntaub ntawv - ua los ntawm ob txhais tes ntawm tus me nyuam.
2. Cov khoom ua si uas muaj kev cuam tshuam rau tus menyuam lub siab:
- tuag (ntau yam khoom siv uas ua haujlwm ntau thiab ntau qhov chaw);
- tho txawv thiab tsis muaj dab tsi (cov ntawv luam ntawm cov tsiaj txhu, cov paj xyoob, thiab lwm yam);
- tsis ncaj ncees thiab ua tsis ncaj (ua tub rog, thiab cov uas txhawb kev ua phem, ua tsov ua rog thiab kev puas tsuaj).
Ob peb lo lus hais txog qhov khoom ua si zoo
Ntxiv nrog rau qhov tsos, nws muaj nqis los ntawm qhov khoom siv los ntawm qho khoom ua si. Thaum yuav muas tsaws rattles, tsis txhob hnov qab tias koj tus me nyuam yuav qw thiab ntxig lawv. Txawm hais tias qee lub sij hawm nws tsuas yog tuav cov khoom ua si hauv koj txhais tes kom ua rau koj txoj kev noj qab nyob zoo tuaj. Qab ib txheej ntawm ci xim yog cov khoom pheej yig hluavtaws nrog cov ntsiab lus ntawm cov tshuaj lom. Ntawm tag nrho cov variegated ntau yam nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam txoj kev lom zem khw muag khoom, tsawg kawg 15% tsis yog raws li tus qauv. Lawv muaj cov tshuaj xws li plastisol, phenol, formaldehyde thiab txawm mercury. Txhawm rau kom tsis txhob ua yuam kev nrog qhov kev xaiv, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb kom nco txog cov khoom ua si nrog "lub npe tsis zoo": "Onsimi", "Tsiaj", "Me Nyuam Npaj" thiab "Foko Just Baby". Tsis tas li, tseem ceeb them nqi rau cov menyuam yaus hauv ib xyoo thiab cov garlands rau me nyuam lub cev tau tsim los ntawm cov tuam txhab "Musical Mobile", "Happy Toys", "Nfants Toys".
Hmoov tsis, tsis muaj leej twg saib cov yeeb yam ntawm kev tu huv thiab kev nyiam huv ntawm cov khoom ua si. Tau, thiab cov kws kho puas hlwb pheej niaj hnub ua suab nrov - ntau thiab ntau zaus cov khoom ua si ua rau muaj kev puas hlwb hauv cov menyuam. Lawv ua rau me nyuam chim siab thiab ua siab phem. Cov kev xav tau hais tias tus menyuam tau txais ntawm hnub nyoog 2.5 mus rau 5 xyoos, rau lub sijhawm ntev thiab nco nws lub neej yav tom ntej. Cia li xav seb tus me nyuam yuav loj hlob li cas, nws ua si nrog cov tub rog los ntawm cov qauv tsim hluav taws xob los yog cov monsters los ntawm kev thaij duab txawv teb chaws thoob ntiaj teb nrog lub ntsej muag. Thiab cov khoom ua si hauv kev ua si uas tsis pub tus me nyuam rau lub sijhawm los xav thiab hais lus rau lawv, tuaj yeem ua rau txoj kev loj hlob.
Ib zaug ntxiv, mus rau tom khw me nyuam yaus, nco ntsoov qhov tseeb qhov tseeb - ib qho khoom ua si yuav tsum tsis txhob muaj kev lom zem xwb, tab sis kuj yog ib yam dab tsi los qhia tus me nyuam. Yog tias koj txhawj xeeb tias koj tus me nyuam yuav thov kom yuav ib lub dab rau nws, tsis txhob qhia nws cov duab kos uas nws pom tau qhov dab no.
Thiab nyob rau hauv xaus, ua ntej complaining txog negligent neeg tsim khoom, saib ntawm koj tus kheej. Feem ntau cov niam txiv niaj hnub no muaj haujlwm ntau heev vim tias lawv muab lawv cov me nyuam mus rau TV thiab lub ntsej muag ci ntsa iab uas tsis tsim nyog raug hu ua cov khoom ua si. Tsawg tus neeg yuav zoo siab hnov tias nws tau tua tus menyuam lub siab nws tus kheej tes. Txawm li cas los xij, yog tias koj xav txog dab tsi thiab ua li cas tus me nyuam ua, qhov tseeb yuav hloov dhau qhov zoo li nws zoo li. Nco ntsoov - yav tom ntej ntawm koj tus me nyuam nyob hauv koj txhais tes. Thiab cia lawv ua ib qho khoom siv zoo thiab tseem ceeb rau menyuam.