Muaj qee leej niam nkees heev, thaum lawv cov menyuam tsis tawm hauv txoj kev, tab sis xav kom zaum hauv tsev nrog nws thiab ua si nrog lawv cov khoom ua si los yog saib TV. Tab sis, thaum lawv mus rau hauv chaw ua si nrog coob tus me nyuam, lawv xav kom tsis txhob sib cuag nrog lawv thiab tsuas mob siab rau lawv niam, thaum nrhiav kev tiv thaiv los ntawm cov menyuam no cov neeg coob coob. Xws li kev tsis sib haum thiab kev tsis pom zoo nrog lwm tus neeg yog hu ua non-contactness thiab yog ib qho kev qhia ntawm cov teeb meem hauv kev txhim kho lossis kev xav ntawm tus menyuam.
Yuav kom daws tau qhov teeb meem, koj thawj zaug yuav tsum tau nrhiav kom paub tias yog vim li cas, vim muaj tej zaum yuav muaj ntau:
- feature ntawm tus cwj pwm;
- tsis muaj teebmeem kev xav hauv tsev neeg (kev haus dej caw ntawm cov niam txiv, tsev neeg tsis sib haum xeeb, kev sib ceg ntawm kev kawm ntawm tsev neeg);
- kev xav tsis zoo ntawm qhov muaj lub cev los sis hais lus tsis meej;
- neuropathy - congenital childish nervousness;
- tsis muaj kev hlub thiab kev paub, kev xav tau los ntawm cov niam txiv;
- tsis muaj kev sib txuas lus;
- kab mob hlwb neuropsychic xws li qaug dab peg, tus mob schizophrenia, menyuam yaus thaum autism ;
- kev tsim los ntawm tus me nyuam qhov kev vam khom rau niam txiv, kev sib thuam los ntawm neeg txawv teb chaws.
Yog li, yog tias koj pom tias koj tus me nyuam tab tom zam lwm tus neeg, koj yuav tsum mus rau ib daim ntawv ntsuam xyuas rau cov kws tshwj xeeb: tus kws kho mob hais lus, tus kws kho kev puas hlwb lossis tus kws kho mob hlwb. Nyob rau hauv rooj plaub tias txhua yam yog nrog rau kev xav ntawm tus me nyuam, niam txiv, thaum nrhiav tau tias yog vim li cas tsis muaj kev sib cuag, tuaj yeem pab nws kawm tsim kev sib cuag thiab ua phooj ywg.
Yuav ua li cas thiaj pab tau tus menyuam tsis nrog tham?
- nthuav koj tus kheej thiab cov me nyuam lub voj voog;
- mus xyuas cov chaw tshiab (nws zoo dua rau pib nrog ob peb neeg);
- ntau zaus qhuas tus menyuam txoj kev vam meej, tshwj xeeb nrog ib tus neeg;
- tsim kev ua tau zoo: ua ntej muab haujlwm yooj yim thiab tom qab nws ua tiav tiav, muab zoo li, tab sis qhov nyuaj, nco ntsoov txhawb nws thaum pib;
- thawb tus me nyuam kom nws paub, pib ua kom paub nws mus rau lwm tus neeg, nws zoo dua mus rau qhov xwm nrog tsev neeg uas muaj cov me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog tib yam li koj li;
- nce tus phooj ywg ntawm tus me nyuam maj mam: thaum xub thawj yuav muaj txaus thiab 2-3;
- Qhia koj tus menyuam kom ua si: piav qhia nws txog cov cai ntawm kev ua si ua ntej pawg, ua si nrog nws tus kheej, kom tus menyuam muaj kev ntseeg siab rau lawv tus kheej;
- Npaj kom muaj kev sib tw rau hauv tsev hais plaub (ib txwm nrog cov kev cai zoo rau koj tus menyuam) nrog rau txhua tus menyuam, thawj zaug koj qhov kev sib tw yog qhov tseem ceeb, hnub tom qab koj twb ua tus saib xyuas thiab tswj qhov kev ua si sab;
- txhim kho cov kev ua ub no uas koj tus menyuam ua tau zoo (kos, caij tsheb kauj vab, khiav, ua si pob);
- nrhiav cov neeg koom tes ntawm nws cov haujlwm yam koj nyiam, piv txwv: sau npe rau lub voj voog;
- ntawm theem pib tsis txhob cia tus menyuam nyob ib leeg nrog rau cov phooj ywg: tiv thaiv thiab pab nws kom zoo heev, tsis tuaj yeem;
- caw cov miv nyuas moog ntsib, npaaj puab kev lomzem, kev ua si hab cov tshuaj, thaum tug mivnyuas yuav nrug puab lub cev lug, koj tuaj yeem pib taug kev moog rua koj lub sijhawm;
- tswj kev sib raug zoo hauv tsev neeg, qhov no yuav ua tau los ntawm kev hu rau tsev neeg tus kws kho mob hlwb;
- npaj kev sib txuas lus nrog cov menyuam hnub nyoog txawv.
Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, ua txhua yam maj mam ua tib zoo ntsia saib xyuas koj tus menyuam lub cev, thiab thaum pib ntawm qhov tsis xis nyob, ua kom nres.
Thaum koj pib daws cov teeb meem ntawm cov neeg tsis tuaj yeem, nws yooj yim dua rau koj thiab koj tus menyuam. Tab sis ib qho tseem ceeb rau kev daws teeb meem yog qhov tsim nyob rau hauv tsev neeg ntawm qhov chaw ntawm kev hlub, kev hwm, kev nkag siab thiab kev txais cov me nyuam zoo li lawv.