Sim ua tus cwj pwm ntawm lawv cov me nyuam, nyob hauv ib qho kev tsuj los yog kev ntshai, cov laus tuaj rau cov lus thiab cov ntsiab lus uas lawv niam lawv txiv hais rau lawv. Tab sis tsis tas li koj hais rau koj tus me nyuam yuav cuam tshuam nws tus cwj pwm thiab pab nws to taub tias nws tsis yog lawm. Qee lub sij hawm, kab lus uas tsis txhais hais tias yog dab tsi rau peb yuav ua rau muaj kev puas siab puas ntsws loj heev rau tus me nyuam, txo nws tus kheej , thiab ua lub zog ntawm kev tsim tawm ntawm cov complexes.
Yog li, yuav kom tsis txhob siv cov nqe lus uas yooj yim qhia tsis tau rau cov me nyuam, hauv tsab xov xwm no peb yuav paub cov lus hais phem tshaj plaws.
1. Koj pom, koj ua tsis tau dab tsi - cia kuv ua nws tus kheej.
Cov niam txiv qhia lawv tus menyuam tias lawv tsis ntseeg nws, tias nws yog ib tug neeg ploj thiab tus me nyuam tsis kam tso siab rau nws tus kheej, suav tias nws tus kheej tau ntuav, ua tsis ncaj, thiab tsis muaj nqis. Tshaj tawm kab lus no txhua lub sijhawm, koj tsis pom nws ua ib yam dab tsi ntawm nws tus kheej, thiab nws yuav ua txhua yam rau nws niam ua nws tus kheej.
Tsis yog txwv tsis pub nws ua ib yam dab tsi los yog ua nws tus kheej, cov niam txiv yuav tsum tau txais kev pab, rov qab piav dua, ua tiav nrog nws, tiam sis tsis yog rau nws.
2. Tub (ntxhais) tsis coj zoo li no!
Cov nqe lus ntev "Cov tub tsis quaj!", "Cov menyuam ntxhais yuav tsum coj ncaj!" Ua kom paub tseeb tias menyuam yaus raug kaw hauv lawv tus kheej, ntshai los qhia lawv txoj kev xav, ua qias. Tsis txhob cia tus cwj pwm ntawm tus cwj pwm zoo rau tus me nyuam, nws yog qhov zoo dua los qhia tias koj to taub nws thiab nrhiav kev pab, ces nws yuav yooj yim dua los piav qhia cov cai ntawm tus cwj pwm rau nws.
3. Vim li cas ho tsis zoo rau koj ...?
Sib piv cov me nyuam nrog lwm tus, koj tuaj yeem tsim los ntawm nws txoj kev tsis sib haum xeeb ntawm kev sib ntaus sib tua, poob siab, ua rau nws tsis ntseeg koj txoj kev hlub. Tus menyuam yuav tsum paub hais tias nws tsis nyiam vim nws ua zoo nkauj, tab sis vim nws yog lawv tus tub los yog tus ntxhais. Yuav ua kom muaj lub siab xav ua kom tau zoo dua, ib tus tuaj yeem sib piv nrog rau tus me nyuam nws tus kheej dhau los.
4. Kuv yuav tua koj, koj tau poob, Kuv xav tias kuv tau rho menyuam tawm!
Xws li cov kab lus tsis muaj cuab kav yuav hais tau, yog li ntawd tus me nyuam tsis ua, lawv tuaj yeem ua rau nws ntshaw "tsis txhob ua."
5. Kuv tsis nyiam koj.
Cov kab lus txaus ntshai no tsim tau tus me nyuam lub tswv yim tias nws tsis xav tau ntxiv, thiab qhov no yog ib qho teeb meem ntawm kev puas siab puas ntsws. Thiab kev siv qhov kev xaiv "Yog tias koj tsis ua raws li, kuv yuav tsis hlub koj" ua rau qhov kev xav ntawm koj txoj kev hlub los ua nqi zog rau nws tus cwj pwm zoo, qhov twg cov menyuam yaus txav ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv.
6. Koj yuav tsis noj porridge, tuaj ... thiab noj koj!
Cov kab lus no twb pib ua tiav hauv peb cov lus, hais tias txawm qee zaum txawv ntawm txoj kev qhia rau nws cov me nyuam, xav ua siab tawv rau lawv. Tab sis tsis muaj dab tsi zoo nrog nws yuav tsis ua hauj lwm: nyob rau hauv ib tug me nyuam me ntshai tsam tau tsim ua phobia tiag tiag, theem ntawm kev ntxhov siab nce, thiab qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau kev poob siab.
7. Koj yog neeg phem! Koj - tub nkeeg! Koj nyob nraum hlob!
Tsis txhob dai daim ntawv lo ntawm tus me nyuam, txawm tias nws tau ua phem heev. Ntau zaus koj hais li no, nws yuav ntseeg hais tias nws yog lawm thiab yuav pib ua zoo. Nws yog qhov tseeb tshaj hais tias "Koj coj tus cwj pwm phem (siab phem)!", Ces tus me nyuam yuav to taub tias nws zoo, tsis yog.
8. Ua txhua yam koj xav tau, Kuv tsis tu.
Cov niam txiv yuav tsum muab lawv tus me nyuam rau siab thiab nyiam ua nws tej hauj lwm, txawm lawv tsis muaj teeb meem dab tsi, yog lawv tsis muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog nws thiab ces nws yuav tsis tuaj rau koj los koom nrog txhua yam. Thiab tib qauv ntawm tus cwj pwm yuav tom qab tsim nrog lawv cov me nyuam.
9. Koj yuav tsum ua raws li kuv hais, vim kuv yog tus thawj coj ntawm no!
Cov me nyuam, nrog rau cov laus, xav tau kev piav qhia vim li cas nws yuav tsum ua li ntawd, thiab tsis yog lwm yam. Txwv tsis pub, nyob rau hauv ib qho teeb meem zoo li, tab sis thaum koj tsis nyob ntawd, nws yuav ua raws li nws siab, thiab tsis raws li txoj cai.
10. Kuv yuav qhia pes tsawg zaus rau koj! Koj ua tsis tau zoo!
Lwm cov kab lus uas txo tus me nyuam tus kheej. Nws zoo dua hais tias "Kawm los ntawm kev ua yuam kev!" Thiab pab nws paub tias nws tau ua yuam kev qhov twg.
Rau koj cov me nyuam xav ua ib yam dab tsi, nco ntsoov ua lawv tsaug rau lawv cov kev pab, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov tub hluas. Nws nyuaj rau koj hais tias "Koj yog ib tug phooj ywg zoo! Ua tsaug koj! ", Thiab tus ntxhais -" Koj yog ntse! ". Thaum ua cov kab lus hauv kev sib tham nrog cov me nyuam, siv qhov "tsis" qhov tsawg dua, uas tsis yog los ntawm lawv. Piv txwv: tsis txhob "tsis txhob tau lo av!" - "Ceev faj!".
Cia taug qab cov nqe lus uas koj siv hauv kev tham nrog cov me nyuam, thiab tom qab ntawd koj yuav kawm txog tus kheej ntawm tus kheej.