Tam sim no yog lub sijhawm thaum tib neeg xav tias kev ywj pheej yog ib qho txiaj ntsim, thiab kev hlub tsis yog. Yog li ntawd, muaj coob tus neeg nyob sib txig sib luag, raws li nws yog ib txoj kev cai kom hu ua kev sib haum xeeb. Lawv zoo li ua ke, tab sis pom seem, thiab txhua tus yog dawb xwb. Nkees - rhuav tshem, tsis txhob mus rau lub chaw ua haujlwm npe, ua kev sib nrauj. Raws li yog, ntawm kev so nrog ib tus neeg hlub, qhov nyuaj tshaj plaws yog mus rau lub chaw ua haujlwm npe rau ib daim ntawv pov thawj ntawm kev sib nrauj.
Ntau zaus ib tug poj niam nkag mus rau hauv kev sib yuav, vim nws xav, tab sis tsis paub yuav ua li cas tiag tiag tau sib yuav (nyob rau hauv lub siab, officially, nrog lub tshoob thiab sau npe). Nws cia siab tias ib tug txiv neej uas tau ua rau nws yuav xav ua kev sib raug zoo nrog nws. Thiab nws txoj kev cia siab tau pom zoo los ntawm qhov tseeb tias qee tus txiv neej ua tau qhov ntawd. Tab sis nws tshwm sim tsis tshua, vim hais tias lub tswv yim ntawm kev sib yuav ua neej tsis zoo rau txhua tus txiv neej.
Los yog, tej zaum, nws yuav yog tseeb hais tias rau feem ntau nws yog tag nrho cov tib txaus nyiam, tab sis nws yog zoo dua tsis nyob ntawm no thiab tam sim no, tab sis lwm qhov chaw thiab tom qab ntawd. Yog vim li cas koj yuav tsum siv koj cov hluas, tej lub xyoo tseem ceeb, ntawm kev sib nrauj sib yuav: cov pots, pawj, sib cav nrog koj tus poj niam, yelling tus me nyuam, tsis muaj nyiaj thiab tawm nrog koj niam tais hauv lub tebchaws? Thaum nws tseem qab ntxiag ntau rau "nyuam qhuav nyob": koj tsis muaj menyuam, tsis muaj teeb meem. Tus poj niam uas koj nyiam - ntawm no nws yog, ntawm koj lub taub teg, nws zoo thiab pab tau (nws tseem cia siab rau lub thwj rau hauv nws daim ntawv hla tebchaws thiab nrhiav kev pom tias nws yog nws xav tau kev pab), tsis tas yuav tsum tau rau cov me nyuam, niam tais, ntxiv mus. Qee lub sij hawm ib tug txiv neej pom zoo nrog cov menyuam yog hais tias tus cohabitation tau ua kom tiav: tsuas yog khaws cov stats ntawm quo. Nws yog tag nrho vim hais tias muaj coob tus txiv neej, nkag mus rau hauv ib tug thiaj li hu civil sib yuav, tsis xav yuav poj niam nyob rau hauv tag nrho. Thiab yog vim li cas? Lawv muaj kev pub dawb (lossis pheej yig) txhua lub rooj tsavxwm, uas suav cov kev pabcuam kev sib deev.
Vim li cas ib tug txiv neej tsis xav yuav ib tug poj niam tus khub?
Tab sis vim li cas cov ntxhais thiaj pom qhov no? Kuv yeej xav tshwm rau txhua tus thiab kuv tus kheej feem ntau niaj hnub thiab ywj siab? Nws yuav zoo dua los xav tias tus txiv leej tub, tau nkag mus rau hauv ib tug cohabitation ntawm 25 xyoo, yuav ruaj ntseg tiav nws lub xyoo nyob rau hauv kaum, ua ib tug zoo kev thiab ib tug neeg ywj siab, nws yuav xav hloov nws lub neej, ntuav tawm qub trampled khau khiab thiab ib tug qub, podnadoevshuyu hluas nkauj. Thiab ntawm no nws yog, hluas, zoo nraug, nws tus kheej, nrog lub tsheb uas yuav tau txais kev txuag nyiaj, ua tsaug rau tus poj niam, thiab nws tus qub "civil wife" nyuam qhuav nyob - tom nws lub luj tshib, quaj hauv lub hauv ncoo thiab nug: vim li cas tus txiv neej tsis xav yuav nws, xws li ib tug devoted concubine?
Yog li, nws tsis xav ua ib tug poj niam tus khub. Thiab nyob rau hauv 35 yog tsis thawj freshness, nws yuav pom zoo, thiab hlub ... Zoo, zoo, hlub dhau ...
Qhov no yog, tsuas yog tus hais lus, tus neeg ua haujlwm tsis tau xav tsis yuav, vim hais tias nws twb muaj txhua yam tam sim no hais tias ib tug ntxhais yuav muab nws tsuas yog tom qab tshoob, thiab me ntsis ntxiv: txoj cai tau sawv thiab tawm thaum nws tau dhuav los yog muab ib yam dab tsi zoo dua.
Yuav ua li cas yog hais tias ib tug txiv neej tsis xav yuav, tab sis hais tias ib tug "civil civil"? Nws yuav zoo dua rau lolus qhia koj tig koj daim di ncauj rov qab thiab txiav txim siab seb nws xav tau li cas: kev sib yuav lossis "kev ywj pheej." Nyob rau hauv rooj plaub thawj zaug - muaj kev sib yuav, nws tiv thaiv cov cai ntawm ib tus neeg twg, nrog rau cov menyuam yaus, thiab yog li ntawd, tus ntxhais pom zoo los xav txog qhov kev pom zoo. Nyob rau hauv lub thib ob - nws yog twb dawb. Vim li cas hloov dab tsi?
Muaj ntau ntau yam vim li cas ib tug txiv neej tsis xav yuav ib tug poj niam tus khub, tab sis qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, tej zaum, yog tias nws tsis xav hloov dab tsi.