Nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb niaj hnub no, nws yeej tsis yooj yim rau cov neeg uas tsis muaj kev tsis ntseeg, thiab tsis yog lawv tsis qhia lawv tus kheej rau gays lossis lesbians, vim hais tias txhua tus tib neeg tsis tas yuav to taub thiab ua zoo rau qhov no. Vim hais tias ntawm no hom secrecy, uas feem ntau tshwm sim tsis ntau nrog secrecy ntawm zej tsoom, raws li los ntawm nws tus kheej, kuj muaj teeb meem. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog qhov no siv rau cov menyuam ntxhais uas poob rau hauv kev hlub nrog ib tug txiv leej tub tsis paub txawm tias nws yog gay, thiab tus txiv leej tub ntawm lub sijhawm no yuav siv tus ntxhais li nws npog, thiaj li ua pov thawj tias nws yog heev heterosexual. Yuav kom tsis txhob poob mus rau qhov teeb meem, uas yuav muaj tseeb tsuas yog ua rau kev puas tsuaj ntawm kev sib raug zoo thiab kev quaj ntsuag, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau kawm yam tsawg kawg ntawm cov homosexuals uas yuav pab kom paub txog ib tug txiv neej gay. Tom qab tag nrho, feem ntau muaj cov xwm txheej uas koj yuav tsum tsis ntseeg txog naturalness ntawm koj tshiab (los yog tsis paub zoo heev), yog li hais tias kev paub li no yuav tsis superfluous rau txhua tus ntxhais.
Yuav ua li cas kawm gay?
Yuav pib nrog, nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau tig mus rau lo lus nug ntawm lub ntsiab lus ntawm ib tug txiv neej gay, leej twg yog ib puas feem pua ntawm gay, thiab tsis yog ib tug neeg laus los yog tus neeg sawv cev ntawm cov neeg tsawg ntawm kev sib deev. Txij thaum nrog gays uas twb tau txiav txim siab lawv tus kheej lawm nrog lawv tus kheej kev coj ntawm cov teeb meem, ntau tsawg tshwm sim thiab nws yog qhov yooj yim kawm lawv.
Yog tias peb tham txog kev kawm gay txog txoj kev, nws yog khaub ncaws ua ntej. Qhov tseeb, niaj hnub txhib niaj hnub muaj peev xwm ua qhov no txhais tau yooj yim, tab sis tseem yog qhov style ntawm khaub ncaws hais ntau txog ib tug txiv neej, txawm hais tias nws tsis yog ib qho yooj yim rau decipher. Yog li, gay neeg feem ntau ua tib zoo ua raws li lawv tus kheej thiab them ntau xim rau qhov tsos. Yog li ntawd, lawv cov khaub ncaws yeej ib txwm zoo, thiab muaj teeb meem hauv daim duab yog tswv yim. Tsis tas li ntawd, gays feem ntau muaj hairstyle zoo heev thiab hairstyle, zoo-groomed daim tawv nqaij, di ncauj, tes thiab hais txog. Feem ntau, lawv them tsis saib xyuas qhov txawv ntawm cov poj niam nruab nrab.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb them nqi rau ib tug txiv neej coj nrog cov neeg sawv cev ntawm nws tus poj niam txiv neej. Cov gays mas feem ntau yog me ntsis freaky, lawv flirt unseen thiab thiaj li nyob rau. Feem ntau, ib tug poj niam muaj kev paub txog tej zaum yuav pom tias muaj kev sib txuas lus qee qhov cim tseg uas tsis tuaj yeem pom.
Tsis tas li ntawd, nyob rau hauv lub tshav pob ntawm suspicion, bachelors yuav poob, tab sis nws tsuas yog nyob rau hauv kev nrhiav rau tus poj niam zoo tagnrho. Thiab ntau tus txiv neej uas tawm suab rau cov poj niam txoj cai los yog, ntawm qhov tsis tooj, tsis hais zoo txog cov poj niam sawv cev.
Tab sis, qhov tseeb, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj los nug qhov khoom ntawm lub sijhawm twg los xij. Feem ntau, yog tias ib tug txiv neej tsis gay, nws yuav teb lo lus nug. Cia nws ua thiab tsis yog ib qho kev qhia ncaj ncaj, tab sis nws yuav yog to taub thiab tsis meej.
Yuav ua li cas kom paub txog qhov nraim gay?
Tab sis yog tias koj kov txog lo lus nug ntawm yuav ua li cas kom pom ib tug latent gay, ces txhua yam yog ib tug me ntsis ntau nyuab. Muaj qee tus neeg uas tsis tuaj yeem lees txais lawv tus kheej lossis nkag siab tsis tau lawv tus kheej thiaj li txiav txim tau nrog nws.
Tab sis qhov teeb meem yog hais tias tag nrho cov cim qhia uas koj tuaj yeem txheeb xyuas ib tug gay yog heev unidentifiable. Yog hais tias tus txiv leej tub tsis kam ntawm nws cov xwm thiab lees txais nws tus kheej li nws yog, ces nws yog yooj yim kom paub txog nws, ib tus ntxhais yuav xav tias, raws li lawv hais, ib yam dab tsi tsis yog. Nrog nraim gays, nws yog qhov nyuaj, yog li them sai sai rau txhua yam hauv tus txiv leej tub: nws qab qab, nyiam, nws cov style. Thaum kawg, ntawm seb nws pom zoo nkauj nrog cov ntaub ntawv ntawm txoj kev. Tab sis tseem, nws yog ib qho yooj yim los ua qhov xaus ntawm nws tus kheej thiab nws yog ib qho uas yuav tsum muaj kev sib tham ntawm lub siab, kom tsis txhob raug kev txom nyem rau qhov kawg vim yog ib tus neeg tsis tsim nyog lub kua muag.