Muaj ntau tus neeg tsis paub yuav ua li cas thiaj li paub hwm lawv tus kheej, tab sis nws tseem tsim nyog rau tackling qhov teeb meem, vim yog tias koj tsis txhawj txog nws, koj tuaj yeem tsis to taub hais tias tsis muaj hauj lwm los yog tus kheej cov kev sib raug zoo tsis ntxiv.
Yuav ua li cas thiaj li paub hwm thiab saib koj tus kheej?
Qhov teeb meem ntawm kev paub txog tus kheej thiab kev tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog cov neeg nyob ib puag ncig koom nrog kev tshawb fawb xws li psychology. Yog li ntawd, rau cov pib kawm, cia peb xav txog cov tswv yim kev sib tw.
Yog li, psychology hais tias nws tsis yooj yim rau kev to taub yuav ua li cas kom paub hwm koj tus kheej, tab sis nws yog ua tau. Yuav kom ua tau li no, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom paub txog tus neeg zoo li cas tiv thaiv ib tug neeg ntawm kev xav "tsis muaj qhov phem tshaj lwm tus." Nws muaj peev xwm hais tias koj yuav to taub hais tias lub complex tau tshwm sim vim hais tias muaj tiag los yog fab xav hauv siab, tab sis tej zaum koj tsis paub yuav ua li cas kom sib txuas lus. Thaum pom txog qhov teeb meem, nws yuav muaj peev xwm pib los daws qhov teeb meem. Tsis txhob sim kho txhua yam teeb meem tam sim ntawd, sib tham nrog ib tus neeg ze txawm tias qhov tsis zoo no tsis ua rau koj zoo siab thiab muaj kev ntseeg siab. Nws yog ua tau hais tias koj tsuas yog "carp at" koj tus kheej thiab tsis tas yuav "poob 10 kg" los yog "repaint koj cov plaub hau".
Qhov thib ob kauj ruam kom pib hwm koj tus kheej, thiab tso tseg paub txaj muag, yog ib txoj kev zoo li kev paub txog ntawm tus kheej txoj hauj lwm zoo. Cov kws txawj ntse pom zoo kom ua ib daim ntawv teev npe ntawm lawv cov kev ua tiav. Nyob rau hauv daim ntawv no, koj tuaj yeem ua txhua yam, thiab ib lub qhov muag tsis tshua muaj qhov muag, thiab rab peev xwm los npaj "tus zoo tagnrho" oj, thiab txawm tias qhov tseeb hauv grade 5 tau muab rau qhov kos duab zoo. Tsis txhob xav hais tias nws tsis tas yuav sau tag nrho cov hom "cov ntsiab lus", tsis muaj ib qho zoo li hauv kev xav ntawm kev xav. Sim nkag siab tias koj xav tias "tsis tseem ceeb" rau lwm tus neeg tej zaum yuav yog qhov khoom ntawm kev khib .