Nws hlob ib tug me nyuam qab zib thiab nyob ntsiag to, tab sis nyob rau hauv ib hnub txhua yam hloov. Nws ua siab tawv qhuab qhia, thuam, thiab qee zaum muaj peev xwm nkag tau rau hauv kev sib ntaus. Qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev ua phem rau cov tub ntxhais hluas muaj peev xwm pom tau nyob hauv txhua lub tsev neeg niaj hnub. Tiam sis tsis yog txhua tus niam txiv paub txog kev yuav ua li cas rau nws tus me nyuam thiab coj nws lub zog tsis zoo rau hauv ib qho kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb.
Qhov ua rau kev ua phem rau cov hluas
Teenage lub hnub tsis yog nyob rau hauv vain feem ntau hu ua transitional. Qhov no yog lub caij nyoog ntawm kev ywj pheej thaum yau thiab loj hlob ib tus neeg raws li ib tug neeg. Thiab tsis tag nrho cov metamorphoses mus ntseeg nkaws. Raws li qhov xwm txheej, txhawj xeeb thiab tsev neeg kev sib raug zoo, kev ua phem rau cov menyuam yaus thiab cov tub ntxhais hluas tuaj yeem siv cov ntawv sib txawv:
- thuam: txhua lo lus, hais tawm ntawm qhov chaw, tuaj yeem ua rau txoj kev chim siab. Thiab tsis tsuas yog rau cov neeg laus, tab sis rau lawv cov phooj ywg;
- Kev tsiv plawv: yog ib qho ntawm cov cwj pwm txawv ntawm kev hloov hnub nyoog. Qhia rau hauv kev ua siab tawv thiab kev kub ntxhov vim li cas;
- TSIS TXHOB: thaum lub sijhawm hloov, cov tub ntxhais hluas tsis tso siab rau lub ntiaj teb sab nrauv, ntseeg tias "txhua tus yog tawm tsam nws";
- latent aggression: tag nrho cov kev thov uas suab rau tus me nyuam qhov chaw nyob yog cov ignored los yog nws ua yeeb yam rau cov uas tau hnov;
- Txoj kev ua tsis ncaj nceeg: tus tub ntxhais hluas coj nws txoj kev ntshaw mus rau ib tus neeg, qhia nws hauv daim ntawv tso wo, kev thuam, kev siab phem;
- kev sib ntaus ntawm cev nqaij daim tawv: kev siv dag zog yuam tiv thaiv tib neeg;
- lus sib ceg: nyob rau cov tub ntxhais hluas, nws ua rau nws tus kheej tshwm sim hauv ib hom lus tsis zoo - quaj, kev hem thiab cov lus. Nws yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau lub hnub nyoog ntawm kev hloov.
Aggression ntawm cov hluas yog ib qho tshwm sim uas tsis tuaj yeem ua pov hwm. Txawm hais tias cov xeeb ntxwv tau txais kev saib xyuas zoo thiab tau kawm ntawv zoo ua ntej kev hloov, tsis muaj kev lees paub tias nws yuav tsis hloov thaum muaj hnub nyoog 12-13. Yog li ntawd, kev tiv thaiv ntawm kev ua phem rau cov tub ntxhais hluas yuav tsum tau ua hauv txhua tsev neeg.
Kev kho kev ua phem rau cov hluas
Hmoov tsis, qhov kev kuaj mob ntawm kev ua phem rau cov tub ntxhais hluas tsis tuaj yeem ua tau hauv tsev neeg. Tab sis yuav tsum hloov tus me nyuam hloov mus rau ib tus kws kho mob hlwb kuj yog qhov teeb meem. Yog li no, ceeb toom txog qhov pib tshwm sim ntawm kev sib liam, nws muaj nqis rau kev coj ua qee yam kev cai rau nws qhov kev tiv thaiv:
- Tsis txhob lam tau lam ua kom aggression rau aggression. Cov tswv yim no tseem ceeb rau cov niam txiv ntawm cov me nyuam kawm ntawv preschool. Txawm hais tias tus cwj pwm ntawm tus me nyuam ua rau koj zoo nkauj tshee, tsis txhob zoo li nws, txwv tsis pub qhov teeb meem yuav tag nrho tawm ntawm kev tswj. Thiab cov niam txiv yuav tsum tsis txhob cog lus rau tus menyuam, vim nws muaj peev xwm luam lawv tus cwj pwm.
- Txoj haujlwm tseem ceeb ntawm cov niam txiv yog sim nrhiav ib hom lus nrog tus me nyuam, tsis hais kev tsis txaus siab thiab kev tswj hwm. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom qhia tus me nyuam zoo tshaj plaws ntawm nws tus cwj pwm - kev coj, kev ua raws li lub hom phiaj, kev muaj peev xwm ua tiav nws tus kheej, thiab txhawb kom tus me nyuam
kev loj hlob ntawm cov yeeb yam no. - Ntau tus niam txiv tab tom sim channel cov tub hluas ntxhais hluas mus rau hauv txoj kev nyab xeeb. Rau cov laj thawj no, ntau cov seem zoo meej: tsim, seev cev, ua si, thiab lwm yam.
- Tag nrho lawv tus cwj pwm niam txiv yuav tsum muab tus me nyuam xav kom zoo li ib tus tswv cuab ntawm tsev neeg, uas nws lub tswv yim raug saib taus thiab hwm. Tus menyuam yuav tsum paub thiab to taub.
- Saib tus menyuam txoj kev xav txog lub neej, tsis txhob sim muab nws lub tswv yim rau nws. Nco ntsoov tias nws kuj yog ib tug neeg, txawm tias tsis paub tab.