Raws li txoj cai, ntau tus poj niam tsis tawm tsam yug tus me nyuam thib ob hauv tsev neeg. Feem ntau ib tug neeg tau sim muaj qhov sib txawv me me rau cov me nyuam, txawm tias lwm tus xav tias yog tus menyuam thib ob lig lawm, nws yuav pab kom tsis txhob muaj kev sib tw ntawm cov menyuam. Tsis tas li ntawd, cov laus yuav muaj lawv tus kheej nyiam, thiab kuv niam yuav muaj peev xwm them ntau dua rau tus menyuam mos.
Yog tias koj xav tau rau leej twg hauv tsev neeg qhov kev pom ntawm tus menyuam thib ob tsis yog ib qho tsim txom, txiav txim siab tshaj plaws rau nws. Ntawm no lo lus nug ntawm kev npaj yuav pib ceev, vim hais tias tus menyuam thib ob tuaj yeem ua rau muaj teeb meem ntawm tsev neeg. Ntau nyob ntawm niam txiv lawv tus kheej. Lawv yuav tsum tau ua txhua yam "ntse ntxoov ntxoo" thiab cob qhia cov me nyuam kev phooj ywg, kev hwm, thiab kev hlub.
Tej zaum, ntau leej niam xav paub seb yuav txiav txim siab rau tus menyuam thib ob. Yog tias koj ua raws li cov lus pom zoo ntawm cov kws kho mob, qhov kev so tsis zoo, uas yog qhov zoo dua los ntawm kev yug menyuam, yog li tsib xyoos.
Yog tias koj xav tau tus menyuam thib ob ntev, tab sis ntshai tsam nws tsis yog lub sij hawm, koj tuaj yeem sab laj nrog koj cov txheeb ze (dads, niam). Tej zaum lawv yuav tsis kam txais kev pabcuam rau koj, ob leeg nyob rau hauv kev txhim kho menyuam yaus, thiab ua rau nyiaj txiag. Ntsuas tag nrho cov neeg thiab cov khoom fwm, npaj kev yug tus me nyuam thib ob. Rau kev yooj yim, koj tuaj yeem sau lawv, thiab txheeb xyuas nrog koj tus txij nkawm.
Yog li thaum twg nws zoo dua kom muaj tus menyuam thib ob? Koj tuaj yeem tsom xyuas cov hnub nyoog ntawm cov me nyuam. Yog tias tus menyuam thib ob pom hauv tsev neeg, thaum tus txwj laus tab tom muaj hnub nyoog ib los yog ob xyoos, tej zaum lawv yuav tau ua phooj ywg zoo. Ntawm chav kawm, ntawm lawv yuav muaj qee zaum yuav muaj kev sib cav thiab txawm tawm tsam, tab sis tsis yog lub siab ntawm kev sib ntaus sib tua rau kev saib xyuas ntawm cov niam txiv yuav raug tsim. Tsis txhob hnov qab tias qhov no tus me nyuam thib ob hauv tsev neeg yuav tsum tau los ntawm koj lub siab loj ntawm lub siab lub ntsws thiab lub cev. Tsis muaj sij hawm los ua kom qhov chaw ua pa tom qab yug me nyuam thawj zaug, koj yuav tau kho kom dhau tag nrho cov kev nyuaj rau zaum thib ob.
Qhov txawv ntawm hnub nyoog ntawm cov me nyuam ntawm peb mus rau tsib xyoos yuav tsis tsim teeb meem tshwj xeeb rau cov niam txiv thiab tus me nyuam. Nws yuav tsis yooj yim rau tus me nyuam loj dua. Nws tuaj yeem pib los saib xyuas nws tus kheej rau txhua txoj kev, siv ntau txoj kev los qhia nws tawm tsam. Yog li, nws ua rau nws nyuaj siab rau niam txiv txoj kev hlub, nrog rau kev khib, nrog rau tus me nyuam thib ob hauv tsev neeg. Yog tias qhov sib txawv ntawm cov menyuam yaus yog txij li tsib mus rau kaum xyoo, qhov yug ntawm tus menyuam thib ob yuav muab sijhawm rau cov niam txiv kom muaj kev txaus siab rau tus menyuam kom zoo thiab saib seb nws loj npaum li cas. Qhov teeb meem lies nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb hais tias nrog xws li ib tug txawv nyob rau hauv lub hnub nyoog, thaum thawj kev sib txuas lus
Tsis tas li ntawd, nws yog qhov teeb meem uas muaj tus menyuam thib ob hauv tsev neeg, thaum tus laus laus tshaj 10 xyoo. Yog tias qhov sib txawv hauv hnub nyoog yog ib qho ntxiv rau tus me nyuam, tus me nyuam loj tuaj yeem kho tus me nyuam tshiab los ua ib qho kev nyiag los yog lub nra uas cuam tshuam nrog nws txoj kev ua neej. Cov niam txiv yuav tsum hais lus nrog tus me nyuam. Koj tuaj yeem qhia tau tias nws zoo npaum li cas yog tias tsev neeg muaj tus menyuam thib ob, uas nws tuaj yeem suav rau hauv cov neeg laus. Cia li sim tsis txhob hais ncaj qha, thiab tseem ceeb tshaj plaws cov lus nug thiab thawj zaug muab nws lub sijhawm rau txhua yam.
Yog tias koj xav tias yuav txiav txim li cas rau tus me nyuam thib ob, tsis txhob hnov qab txog ib qho tseeb uas yooj yim: me nyuam yeej tshwm sim rau lub sijhawm.