Vim li cas tus menyuam yuav tom?

Cov me nyuam loj hlob, loj hlob, thiab tib lub sij hawm cov niam txiv muaj hauj lwm tshiab uas yuav tsum tau hais. Piv txwv, ntau tus neeg tau ntsib nrog lo lus nug: vim li cas ib tug me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog ib xyoos thiab laus dua tom qab thiab nias ntawm kindergarten, hauv tsev thiab hauv chaw ua si. Tau, nws yog nyob rau lub sijhawm no uas cov niamtxiv pom qhov kev tshwm sim thawj zaug ntawm kev ua phem rau cov menyuam yaus. Txawm hais tias ib tus menyuam tuaj yeem coj li no, tsis yog vim kev npau taws. Cia peb rov qab saib dua, raws li psychology piav txog qhov teeb meem no: vim li cas cov me nyuam yaus tom, tweak thiab nyiam siv quab yuam ntau zaus.

Vim li cas thiab cov kev daws teeb meem

1. Cov menyuam yaus yog cov paub ntau heev. Lawv kawm txog ntiaj teb ib puag ncig lawv tus kheej txhua hnub. Rau lawv txhua yam yog tshiab. Zoo li lub sijhawm los mus ntsib lwm tus neeg. Xav txog, tus me nyuam twb paub lawm hais tias nws muaj cov hniav. Nws tuaj yeem tom qaug cawv lossis ua kua. Thiab nws nyiam ua dab tsi yuav tshwm sim yog tias koj ua tib yam nrog koj niam los yog phooj ywg hauv lub tsev hais plaub. Yog tias tus menyuam tau raug thawj thawj zaug, thiab koj pom tias nws tsis npau taws, tab sis tsuas yog xav paub, ces tej zaum yog vim li cas kev tshawb fawb.

Yuav ua li cas nkag mus rau ib tus neeg laus: Yog tias tus me nyuam tseem tsawg thiab tsis hais lus, koj yuav tsum tau xaiv qhov kev txiav txim: "Koj thev kuv." Piav tias nws mob siab. Tiv thaiv txoj hauj lwm, tshem tus me nyuam ntawm nws tus kheej me ntsis, ua rau nws paub meej tias qhov kev coj cwj pwm no ntxhov siab. Yog tias koj, piv txwv, cia tus me nyuam rau ntawm koj sab ncej puab, tshem tawm thiab muab tso rau hauv pem teb.

Thaum tus me nyuam tseem tom, kuj ua yeeb yam. Tej zaum tus me nyuam yuav tsis to taub qhov sib txuas los ntawm thawj zaug, tab sis nws thiaj li txiav txim siab tias qhov tom tsis zoo thiab ua rau qhov kev txiav tawm ntawm txoj hauj lwm qab ntxiag.

2. Ib tug me nyuam yaus ntawm ib los yog ob xyoos nws twb raug rhiab heev, tab sis nws tseem tsis paub yuav ua li cas qhia nws tus cwj pwm hauv cov lus. Es tsis txhob, nws tuaj yeem tom, ntaus lwm tus neeg los yog tus tsiaj. Qhov no tuaj yeem tshwm sim los ntawm ntau dhau kev muaj tus cwj pwm zoo.

Yuav coj tus cwj pwm li cas rau tus neeg laus: qhia tus me nyuam kom pom tus cwj pwm txawv, piav cov lus tsis siv quab yuam.

3. Kev ua phem, dhau, feem ntau ua rau cov me nyuam yaus tom. Qhov no tuaj yeem ua kom yooj yim los ntawm tsev neeg, kev sib cav sib ceg, kev tsim txom ntawm cev rau tus menyuam. Hauv qib kindergarten, cov menyuam yaus tom vim tsis muaj peev xwm sib txuas lus nrog cov phooj ywg cov lus, kom tiv thaiv lawv tus kheej thiab lawv cov khoom ua si.

Yuav ua li cas nkag mus rau ib tus neeg laus: ua ntej tshaj, tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo hauv tsev neeg, kev sib txuas lus nrog tus menyuam, kom piav qhia rau tus me nyuam raws li qhov yuav ua li cas coj raws li ib qho teeb meem hauv txoj cai.

Cov cai ntawm lub series "tsis xav tau"

1. Psychologists tsis tau qhia kom siv lub txim rau kev raug txim hauv kev teb rau ib qho tom.
2. Ntev mus nyeem cov cim tseem tsis tau tsim nyog. Lub sijhawm luv luv ntawm tus me nyuam pheej sib tham, sib thab rau nws.
3. Nyob rau txhua qhov teeb meem, tus me nyuam xav tau kev txhawb nqa, kev nkag siab thiab kev hlub ntawm niam txiv.

Yog tias koj daws tsis tau qhov teeb meem ntawm koj tus kheej: yog vim li cas koj cov menyuam ua tom, ces koj yuav tsum nrhiav kev tawm tswv yim los ntawm ib tug kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws. Ua ke koj yuav pom tias yog vim li cas thiab txiav txim siab seb yuav ua li cas thiaj zoo tshaj plaws rau koj qhov teeb meem.